Idk if this helps.
Age of: unborn
Mother smoking - end result = anger problems, social issues due to brain damage.
Age of: 1-6
Mother abuses me, on a drunken rage due to heavy stress from smoking. (Not often from a mother now is it?
Mother takes me away from father (without legal consent)
Age of: 7-8
Father FINNALY gets legal justice on having me at his place.
Age of: 12-14
With legal control on self I decide not to visit her any longer or speak to her.
Age of: 15 (2016)
Mother dies of stroke, no feelings of her, not a tear.
I know your not a mother but shit can fuck up relationships, if she wasn't ever smoking my life was 100% going to be better (no brain function problems, no broken up family, no death)